Question? Who decides your happiness?

When commenting on his marriage Will Smith said;

“her happiness is not my responsibility. She should be happy and I should be happy individually. Then we come together and share our happiness. Giving someone a responsibility to make you happy when you can’t do it for yourself is selfish” let that sink in.”

I let that sink in.

Granted, I am not in a marriage never have been, so I didn’t associate that comment in a relationship context.

I related to it in a ‘ONENESS’ concept.

Meaning’ there are so many more variables that can add to you giving one’s happiness power away.


I am currently in the middle of a ripple from a car accident over 3 years ago. I am waiting to go get another test on my knee after my doctor informed me a fracture is not healing.

Needless to say, receiving that informed has given weight to my shoulders.

That is why this message sang to me today.

It’s been 3 weeks since I was told about the test.

All parties involved have agreed to the test, yet…the paperwork (for the past 3 weeks) has been off.

I have been so anxious about the results to this test.

I have been giving something that hasn’t happen yet power.

This morning I woke up and decided to ‘let it go’.

I have been giving ‘fear filled’ attention on a result hasn’t happened.

The time has come to focus on what makes me happy in this moment.

This wobble is leading me to understand my happiness.

I was my happiness away to a future circumstance.

(Be present in NOW)

Now, I could be doing something that makes me happy.

Yesterday, I woke up and decided to rest all day because it made me happy.

Today, I woke up and wrote this because it makes me happy.



Tomorrow, I will wake up, smile and decide to do what makes me happy.

I will be sad sometimes.

I will be weird sometimes.

Regardless, it’s my decision.

Just like every decision is YOURS.


Thank you for letting me share.

Be kind. Be well. Smile!!!

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